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Cut Buddies, a phrase coined by mainstream hip hop years ago is the topic of discussion for today World. Lets start with a definition.

Cut Buddy- n. a friend with whom you engage in sexual relations with. That is it, committment, passion and love not required and are strongly discouraged with a cut buddy. Also known as a Friend with Benefits.

Having a Cut Buddy can result in extreme happiness for the noncommittal folks out there but it can also result in an immense amount of stress as well. You must proceed with caution when choosing to add benefits to your friendship. This is an extremely delicate process that takes a lot of thought and analysis if you plan on having a successful friend with benefit situation.

You see a cut buddy when evaluated properly can be a great thing to have. Why you ask? Well because with the establishment of a cut buddy or friend with benefit you are guaranteed continuous sex. So after that relationship goes awry you can always count on your “friend” to be there with the type of loving you need. Or if you are dating someone new and no committments have been established but you don’t want to put out so quickly, call up your cut buddy and that need can be fulfilled, no questions asked.

But sometimes cut buddies can bring a ridiculous amount of stress and drama. This occurs when you do not properly evaluate the person that you go into the cut buddy situation with. For example, you decide that the best cut buddy for you is your ex... this always ends badly, don’t do it stupid!!!!!

You decide that the best cut buddy for you is your homeboy’s girlfriend… if you do this I assume you enjoy getting your ass beat.

You decide that the best cut buddy for you is a psycho who has 3 hundred photos of you strategically placed around their bedroom… i love my readers and i don’t want to hear you guys died over sex, it’s never that serious.

And finally you decide that the best cut buddy for you is someone that you work with or just someone you have to see all the time… this will always make a situation awkward and then cut buddying it up later on that night won’t be so good, and then what’s the point if it’s not going to be good, DUH!!

I am not in anyway against acquiring a cut buddy, actually low key I suggest it if you aren’t looking for Mr. or Miss Right at this time. But please choose your buddy wisely so that you may have the most and greatest stressfree unattached sex ever.

Peaches&Gumbo