If you are an avid reader of this blog you all read my warning about the person that you have deemed as your opposite sex “Friend.” Well guess what, apparently everyone did not take heed to my warning, and more importantly, I am so over the “friend,” thus it must be revisited.

But I will give this person the benefit of the doubt, I am assuming that their utterly out of place comments and actions occur because they may be unaware that they are this “friend.” So as usual I have compiled a list to aide you guys in figuring out if you fit into this category or not. I mean I am here to help!!

You Are in the “Just A Friend” category when:

1. You are constantly questioning the situation that your opposite sex friend is in. Situation includes but is not limited to: low key relationships, out in the open relationships, cut buddy relationships or maybe even friendships. You are always asking your friend why they are involved in this?? or what is it that keeps you in this situation?? Realize that You’re a hater, if you do this and if the girl or guy involved has not Chris Browned your friend, has an STD, is an all around bad person or has slept with your friends brother or sister then you need not comment.

2. You are constantly making comments to the non friend in the situation. Uh yeah I know you guys are like I wish a (insert obscene word here) would say something to me. But it happens, these people get incredibly bold and feel that they have the place to comment to whomever is involved. Never, I repeat never say any out the way comments to your friends situation. It is not your place, you are not involved therefore… (clears throat) don’t involve yourself. At the end of the day it makes you look like something possibly is going on with you two or you are crazy. Stop This.

3. You befriend your friends situation in order to bad talk your friend to them. This is just crazy, but it has happened to me. If you have suddenly become all buddy buddy with your friends situation out of a common interest, cool. But if you find yourself revealing that your friend has messed with so many people, or girl i could never see myself talking to this person because…, then you are a top candidate in the category.

All in all, if you are not involved in something, stay the hell up out of it. Neither person involved needs or wants you to add any validity to their situation and they are grown ass people so they can figure it out on their own. So keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself and if you get bored, find  a hobby… take up knitting or something.

Peaches&Gumbo