Ahhh! You just started dating the most amazing guy/girl. They make you laugh, you guys have a ball together and you get giddy whenever they send you those random text messages throughout the day. Everything is just so new and great. As time passes, the physical attraction increases and you could want nothing more than to… well you know. So when is it appropriate to go through with the do?? Well of course there are a few necessities that must be taken care of before i get into this topic. It is 2008 and disease is rampant, so before you do or think to do anything both parties should be knowledgeable of each others std status. Ok now that, that is out the way.

Ladies a lot of you have trouble coming to a conclusion to this question and instead depend on the opinion of friends or television shows such as Girlfriends…(Joans 3 month rule). But really as a grown ass woman, should sex with someone you genuinely care be based upon a timeline. I mean this sounds a bit immature but maybe thats just me. Now I am not saying that upon meeting a guy at the local club you should immediately take him home after he has introduced himself to you but it makes no sense to hold off for months and months doing something that you are going to eventually do anyway.

Guys you equally have an issue with coming to the conclusion of this question. Although most of you would more than likely love to lay your special lady down immediately, you also know that if this were to happen she wouldn’t be so special to you anymore. So although I do not think there should be a specific timeline, that does not mean that you should proposition your girl mere hours after you guys have begun dating exclusively.

My answer may leave you a tad salty but so what, its my blog… you can leave, lol.

But I believe that you should wait until you can’t wait anymore. Aww come on peaches, what the hell does that mean. Simple, when you both get to the point where neither of you can even think of going another moment without exploring each other, then BAM you should get it poppin. This means that it has to be a mutual feeling between the both of you. How can you tell when this happens you ask?? You will know, it will almost feel like both of you have to pee really badly.

1.Everything will start to get awkwardly quiet when you are watching a love scene in a movie.

2.Most late night conversations will slyly end up entering into the sex talk zone.

3.Kisses will become deeper and longer.

4.Lastly, both of you will just become so ridiculously frustrated with each other that the inevitable will be bound to happen.

When you wait until you cant wait anymore, trust me it will be the most memorable night of each of your sexy lives.

Peaches&Gumbo