Sexy vs. Cute

So apparently, I’m cute. I know right, who knew, lol.

But seriously, one of my guy friends explained to me once that I was a cute girl, not to be confused with being a sexy girl. At first I was very offended by this statement because I thought he was saying that I didn’t add up in the looks department or something rude like that. But he explained that while there is a difference it’s not bad to just be merely cute. Quite honestly, in some situations it is better to be considered the cute girl. So whats the difference you ask?? Well that’s why I’m here readers of the world, so you can know the gosh doggone difference.

A cute girl is one that has a pretty face, nice/average shape, and is easily recognized as being good looking. The things that stand out about this girl are: personality, her ability to care for others, her drive and determination and her intelligence. When it comes to sex she is good at it but rarely tries completely to the left things. She is a compatible lover and knows what her guy likes and aims to please in a sweet, soft porn type of way. This girl usually is the type that can be loved by the mamas and the homeboys. In essence a package deal when it’s time to settle down and have small niglets.

The sexy girl is one that does not have to look that good. Apparently looks have little to do with a sexy girl. A sexy girl has swag and she oozes sex. When she walks, her hips sway and hypnotize every guy even remotely near her. She always wears clothes that accentuate her shape, and she spends lots of time on her appearance. Meaning make up is always above par, hair never out of place, nails and eyebrows always done. The things that stand out about this girl are: her body, her lips and her eyes. When it comes to sex she is nothing short of a lioness in the sheets. She could care less about her partner, she is comfortable doing whatever it is that gives her pleasure. Unlike the soft porn cute girl, she is like one of those hard core OMG! they are having sex on the concrete porns. You’re not quite sure if you could take her around your homeboys because she is just so damn sexy and I am not sure how your mama would react to your girl sucking your fingers at dinner. In essence she is secretly what every girl wants to be and what every guy just plain wants. She is independent and confident.

**these are only 2 types of females, there are several more that will be discussed in later entries**

My advice to the cute girls is to take some shit from the sexy girl side and add a little XXX to yourself, I know thats what I’m trying to do.  

Do you agree with the sexy v. cute philosophy world?? Let’s Hear what you gotta say n stuff!

Peaches&Gumbo

August 11, 2008. Tags: , . Personal Philosphies. 8 comments.